tailieunhanh - 921 Confidence & Courage Tips phần 2

Tham khảo tài liệu '921 confidence & courage tips phần 2', ngoại ngữ, ngữ pháp tiếng anh phục vụ nhu cầu học tập, nghiên cứu và làm việc hiệu quả | Confidence Courage Help You Realize Your Dreams 15 Whereas when you are lying there s that voice inside of you saying What if they can see through me and sense my dishonesty Or What if I m ever found out In fact just planning to lie already makes one anxious or tense. In other words it puts you in a disempowering or unresourceful state. And it negatively affects your performance. Worse you will lose your audience s trust once they sense you are not telling the truth they will somehow sense it subconsciously . And when that happens it will be all over. Once your credibility goes everything else goes. 14. Trust that you can handle whatever comes your way. This must be one of the biggest and most important lessons I ve learned about effective speaking presenting. In fact every great speaker presenter does it whether consciously or unconsciously. If you ll only observe the most relaxed and effective speakers presenters ex. TV personalities or talk show hosts you will find that they have this quality. They ll say or do the wrong things at times and they ll just simply laugh it off or make a joke out of it. And then they ll proceed as if nothing happened. They are able to consistently do this because they have simply learned to trust in their ability to handle whatever comes their way. By mastering this principle you can go very far as a speaker presenter. In fact if you happen to come short in other areas but you have this quality you ll be able to face any unexpected event with a sense of calm while others would panic in the same situation . In fact this does not only apply to speaking presenting but to life as a whole. Basically you are saying to yourself No matter what happens I know I can handle it. If I make a mistake so what It s not the end of the world. Besides I permit myself to make mistakes. I ll learn from this experience and move on. Remember The meaning of any event is the meaning you give it. Also nothing has any power over you except the power .