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KỸ THUẬT # 41: NGẮN trên tài sản? GO LONG NGÀY khen ngợi hấp dẫn và người thực hiện đã quen với việc ca ngợi, khen ngợi thường có giá trị trên thị trường mở. Hãy tìm kiếm lời khen ngợi ban đầu cho Quarry phổ biến. Tuy nhiên, nếu Quarry của bạn không được sử dụng để được khen ngợi, người đó là đói cho các từ của bạn đánh giá cao, không có vấn đề như thế nào nên nhàm chán. Thức ăn chăn nuôi cái tôi của Quarry của bạn chế độ ăn uống thích hợp và. | TECHNIQUE 53 DON T ASK WHAT DO YOU DO Develop an ear for appropriate topics of conversation. Pedigreed and other prestigious prey have very sensitive toes. You don t want to go around stomping on them. Above all avoid the favorite party question And what do you do It tags you as so working class. Use Status Words with Status Prey People from richer backgrounds have richer clothes richer houses richer cars and richer vocabularies. They don t necessarily have big cars but they do tend to avoid the common little ones. It s the same with their words. They don t often use big ones but they do avoid the common little ones that have little impact. To be well-spoken in the well-heeled high-accomplishment crowd use the technique I call your personal thesaurus. Think of some words you often use for example the overused words good and smart. It s very common to say You look good or That s a smart idea. Take a thesaurus a dictionary of synonyms down from the library shelf. Look up smart and good. You ll find dozens of richer synonyms. Like trying on a suit of clothes choose three or four words that seem to fit your personality. Then Hunters the next time you want to compliment your classy Quarry and tell her she looks good say Oh Sue you look ravishing or stunning. or Sue how striking you look or Oh my goodness you look elegant. Huntresses you d like to compliment your highbrow Quarry by telling him he did something smart Instead say Oh George that was so clever of you or how resourceful or ingenious. George that was so astute of you. Page 186 Give high rollers high-rolling compliments. Cultivate your own personal thesaurus of not big words but words you like elegant words that fit you. Use them a few times with your friends and family. Soon just like breaking in a new pair of shoes you ll be comfortable chatting with your well-spoken Quarry. TECHNIQUE 54 YOUR PERSONAL THESAURUS To convey a rich background choose rich words from the thesaurus. Like a beautiful necklace try .