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KỸ THUẬT # 41: NGẮN trên tài sản? GO LONG NGÀY khen ngợi hấp dẫn và người thực hiện đã quen với việc ca ngợi, khen ngợi thường có giá trị trên thị trường mở. Hãy tìm kiếm lời khen ngợi ban đầu cho Quarry phổ biến. X | feel beautiful. Trapped inside every frog-faced man is a handsome prince waiting for you to kiss him with praise. Page 150 TECHNIQUE 41 SHORT ON ASSETS GO LONG ON PRAISE Attractive and accomplished people are accustomed to praise so compliments often have less value on the open market. Seek original praise for popular Quarry. However if your Quarry is not used to being praised he or she is hungry for your words of appreciation no matter how trite. Feed your Quarry s ego the appropriate diet and watch his or her love grow. Knee-Jerk Praise What You Just Did Was Fabulous Here is a little pistol shot you must use with everyone whether her face is plain or pretty whether his accomplishments are trivial or triumphant. I call it the knee-jerk compliment. There are crucial moments when if you don t offer a compliment you will offend your Quarry. If he or she has just finished an accomplishment made a big sale taken a final bow after a performance successfully negotiated a deal cooked a great meal make sure the very first words out of your mouth relate to that just-completed triumph. At that moment your Quarry is sure to have only one raging question in his or her mind How d I do If you don t want to lose love points you must first give your Quarry an instantaneous knee-jerk compliment. A friend once told me how disappointed he was in his girlfriend s reaction to a speech he gave for his industry s convention. Right after his talk which had been a great success he strutted back amidst the applause to take his seat next to his significant other. The first thing she said to him was Wave to Page 151 Bill and Sue back there. We didn t know they were going to be here. Boom What a letdown. Where was his well-deserved compliment A few moments later she did say You gave a great speech sweetie but it was too late. What a difference if she had first complimented his speech and then said By the way . . . TECHNIQUE 42 THE KNEE-JERK COMPLIMENT After your Quarry s accomplishment .