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Những con chuột! Nó bắt đầu tuyệt vời như vậy. Buổi nói chuyện nhỏ được thoải mái. Quarry của bạn đang mỉm cười và nghiêng trong, và cô ấy dường như dễ tiếp thu. Nhưng khi nó đến thời gian để có được những thứ nhàm chán và nhiều chủ đề thú vị, bạn có gắn lưỡi. Dưới đây là một bài kiểm tra. Trong cuộc nói chuyện nhỏ ở trên, có một nở thoát, một anh đào. Bà hấp dẫn Stranger nói một từ mà bạn. | Rats It started out so great. The small talk was comfortable. Your Quarry was smiling and leaning in and she seemed receptive to you. But when it came time to get off the boring stuff and on to more interesting topics you got tongue-tied. Here s a quiz. In the above small talk there was an escape hatch a cherry. Ms. Attractive Stranger said one word that you Page 67 could have picked up on that would have catapulted you right out of small talk and into something much more interesting for her. Did you spot it Answer It was the word plants. Let s go back to your less-than-riveting discussion of the weather. Just before you were afflicted with that sinking What do I say next feeling she said At least it s good for the plants. To the savvy Hunter that s a cue. Perhaps you wouldn t know a daffodil from a dandelion but obviously plants are part of your new Quarry s life or she wouldn t have used the word. Subconsciously even unbeknownst to her she was crying out I really prefer to discuss plants. TECHNIQUE 11 CHERRY PICKING You ll never be stuck for good discussions with your Quarry if you pick up on the conversational cherry. Listen for any slightly unusual word. That s your cherry seed. Plant it and watch it flower into a memorable first conversation for your Quarry. After she threw out that cherry you should have asked Oh do you have a garden Maybe she has a vegetable garden a roof garden a hanging garden or a victory garden. Maybe she has no garden at all but just loves plants. You don t know yet but you do know that plants are somehow part of her world. Otherwise the word wouldn t have slipped out. Now suppose instead of saying At least it s good for the plants she had said I know it s like a tropical storm out there isn t it Your Quarry has just given you the cherry to save the conversation tropical storm. Say Oh have you been to the tropics Chances are she has or at least has a knowledge of them or it wouldn t have Page 68 welled up from her subconscious when .