tailieunhanh - Confidence & Courage Tips phần 3

Đó là trong khả năng của bạn để khám phá ra rằng những người bạn thực sự là không có gì để lo sợ, nhưng mà bạn làm cho mình sợ hãi mỗi khi bạn nhìn ra bên ngoài của mình cho một số quyền lực để làm cho bạn cảm thấy sợ hãi. ~ Vernon Howard ~ 2. Đơn giản chỉ cần cố gắng. JUST DO IT. Tránh overanalyzing (thường là kết quả trong sự trì hoãn). | Confidence Courage Help You Realize Your Dreams 21 It is in your power to discover that who you really are has nothing to fear but that you make yourself fearful each time you look outside of yourself for some power to make you feel fearless. Vernon Howard 2. Simply attempt. JUST DO IT. Avoid overanalyzing which usually results in procrastination . Once you ve decided to do something just do it avoid delaying unnecessarily . Over time this reinforces the feeling of courage in your nervous system. You ll be more and more in touch with the courageous part of yourself. And as a result taking action without hesitating will feel more natural to you. It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare it is because we do not dare that things are difficult. Seneca Do it like there s no one watching do it like you don t need the money do it like you just can t lose JUST DO IT. Nike Ad In other words do your best not to give fear or excuses a chance to creep in. Why Because when that happens the following is what normally results as Seneca s quote explains A man who suffers before it is necessary suffers more than is necessary. Also as Publilius Syrus s quote explains Valor grows by daring fear by holding back. 3. Give yourself permission to be courageous avoid allowing yourself to be cowardly . And avoid giving others or anything permission to make you feel fearful. The key word here is permission. Understanding this principle and applying it in your daily life will empower you in ways you may not have imagined before. It puts you in a powerful position because it gives you control in other words you Confidence Courage Help You Realize Your Dreams 22 won t be just a mindless punching bag to others . You are able to consciously decide whether or not someone will influence you in a negative way. As a result you ll be more at ease in dealing with others no matter who they are. You see the reason some people are bullied is because they permit it. They .