tailieunhanh - family therapy concepts process and practice phần 8

Mặt khác, bạn có thể nói, thay đổi tình hình của chúng tôi. Tham gia vào vấn đề này. Đang cố gắng để đồng ý về một kế hoạch. Và sau đó cố gắng để làm theo thông qua là sẽ dẫn đến chiến đấu, xung đột, rắc rối hơn. Nó chỉ là không có giá trị. | 424 FAMILY THERAPY PRACTICE WITH ADULT-FOCUSED PROBLEMS also opening up the possibility of an alternative systemic framing of their difficulties. For example I was struck by the way each of you have distinctive styles for managing situations and have discussed this with two colleagues since we last met to obtain their expert opinions on how best to proceed. One of my colleagues was taken by ABC s style. ABC you have shown that your own personal style is to talk straight and say what is on your mind so if you want DEF to know you think a job needs to be done in the house you tell him straight and don t beat around the bush. If he doesn t take notice you tell him again. That is the straight talking approach . My other colleague was impressed by your style DEF. You take a thoughtful approach . You think things over a great deal before saying anything. This is personal style and one that reflects your careful approach to this relationship. I suppose the question that is raised for me is how can the best of both styles be brought to bear on the difficulties and distress you are both experiencing Perhaps you have views on this you would like to air today Externalising Problems and Building on Exceptions During the assessment stage couples are invited to construct a formulation of those exceptional circumstances in which an episode of conflict or distress was expected to occur but did not. Within this formulation a behaviour pattern underlying beliefs and historical or cultural factors that underpinned these are described. In treatment couples may be invited in therapy to explore ways to recreate such exceptions and then to attempt to put this plan into action as a homework assignment. To help couples jointly work to create positive exceptions it is useful to externalise the force that underpins the conflict by for example referring to it as bad relationship habits or faulty relationship maps White 1995 . Thus the therapist may ask How have you both arranged from time to

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